1. Church Government:
Baptist - Congregational, autonomous, no formal link to other churches
Presbyterian - Representative, ruled by elders, formal links to other churches within the denomination
2. Church Services:
Baptist - usually less formal. Most services normally end with an invitation to come forward. Think Charles Stanley.
Presbyterian - usually more formal, with creeds, confessions, responsive readings, etc. Think D. James Kennedy. However, many evangelical Presbyterian churches tend to be less formal and you might find little difference between the two church services (except for the lack of an invitation).
3. Theology:
Baptist - normally Dispensational; may be new Covenant Theology
Presbyterian - Covenant Theology
4. Eschatology:
Baptist - normally, pre-trib, pre-mil
Presbyterian - May be amillenial or historical premillenial; also, may be partial preterist as well. Not a major issue in most Presbyterian churches.
5. Baptism:
Baptist - An ordinance. Believers only by immersion only
Presbyterian - A sacrament. Believers and their children; by pouring, sprinkling or immersion
6. Lord's Table:
Baptist - an ordinance - memorial service only; normally does not happen very often and is a closed table (usually open to only those church members or other Baptists)
Presbyterian - a sacrament - a means of God's grace; normally occurs more often, though not every week and is open to all Christians present
7. View of Salvation:
Baptist - ranges from strongly Arminian to Calvinistic; from what I've experienced personally - closer to the Arminian position
Presbyterian - Calvinistic
8. Confessions:
Baptist - not a confessional church, but may refer to the London Confession (but probably not)
Presbyterian - holds to doctrines defined in the Westminster Confession of Faith and the Larger & Shorter Catechisms
9. Social/Political Issues:
Baptist - normally more conservative
Presbyterian - normally less conservative; normally these issues are not addressed from the pulpit
10. Scholarship/Education (note: I hesitate to include this, but from what I have seen, this is true):
Baptist - varies from pastor to pastor and church to church. Some ordained pastors have considerable education, while others do not.
Presbyterian - Pastors must always have both a four-year degree plus a seminary degree before ordination.
11. Calling to Ministers:
Baptist - by the local church only
Presbyterian - by the local church, plus qualifications and doctrines are approved by the elders in other local Presbyterian churches (ie the Presbytery)
Just to throw a little wrench in the works, I'll add the Primitive or Old Baptist distinctions to the list.
Church Government:
Same as other Baptists in theory, but more often than not in our churches the church votes on every issue and no decisions are made without approval and vote of the whole church body.
Church Services:
Informal. Church building in particular. Though we do have a certain flow to the service. Singing, prayer, preaching, shaking hands while singing, prayer, lunch!
Theology:
New Covenant
Eschatology:
I've never been all that familiar with the different " -mills" so I'll tell you in my own words that most of us believe that we are currently in the "millenial" reign of Jesus and that it is not a literal 1,000 year reign. The 2nd coming will be the end of this earthly reign. I've never gotten consistent answers to the differing "mill" definitons, so put me in whichever group you think best fits.
Baptism:
An ordinance. Full immersion by an ordained minister of our faith is the only accepatble baptism. My pastor was actually dunked twice because his hair didn't go all the way under. He wouldn't have that problem now. He's as slick as a cue ball.
Lord's Table:
Ordinance to consist of unleavened bread, fermented wine, and followed by footwashing, although most churches see footwashing as more of a "directed suggestion" than an ordinance. Lord's Supper must also be administered by an ordained minister of our faith. We are close communion with other churches of our faith.
View of Salvation:
Most would call us hyper-calvinist. I prefer to call us Bible-believing. We believe the 5 points of Calvinism, if you make the 5th Preservation rather than Perseverance. We believe it is Christ's perseverance that keepsus saved, not our own. If Christ is persevering, then that is the same as preserving because he can not fail.
Confessions:
I don't know of any church that doesn't have their own Articles of Faith. Each church writes their own and all are usually some form of all of the rest.
Social/Political Issues:
Very conservative, though in the South I would venture to say that there are as many Democrats as Republicans, especially in the older generation, simply because "that's what Papa was." My grandmother was an example of this until I had her watch John Kerry on the TV. She could not believe a Democrat could be for such things as abortion, gay marriage, etc, etc. It was shocking to her. Abortion and homosexuality are seldom preached on, but I have heard them on occassion. The pulpit is not a political forum.
Scholarship/Education:
I no of no Elder who went to a seminary, though I know of a good number who went to college for a different degree. I would say probably 40% of ministers in the PB church went to college. Our ministers our selected by watching them "grow" and preach for several congregations for many years. I would guess that on average an Elder excercises his gift for 10 years or more before being ordained.
Calling to Ministers:
Of course God does the calling, but the church does the recognizing. Most young men will be asked to take part in the services, take about 15 minutes or so before an Elder. This is how we determine who is called to preach. Those who are not will either show that they're not called (they won't be able to preach/the Spirit isn't there directing them) or they may ask the Elder not to call on them. There seems to usually be a "feeling" between the young man and the Elders of the church when he is called to preach. I can't explain it if you've never been in that position before.
Hope I haven't muddied the waters too much, but these are classic Old Baptist views.
Bro. James (we are sounding more like conservative Presbyterians in doctrine than modern Baptists

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