In the interest of anonymity, I won't be divulging my own name, nor the name of my Bible teacher. Same reason I don't list the name of my church on my profile. There are others I attend with who are on this board as well, and it would infringe upon their right to privacy as well. This is, after all, the internet.
However, I can tell you that my Bible teacher is professor at Azusa Pacific University. He also taught at Fuller Theological Seminary, as well as spending a few years at Liberty Baptist. (He perfers the weather here in Southern California).
I can also tell you that he does have material published in regards to biblical lexicology, but I'm not sure if this subject has been put on paper.
I have indeed given you internet references to my point. You either did not look at them, or disregarded them. I assumed you would do one or the other. Since I haven't been in college in about 15 years, I really can't give you more than that without doing some library research.
As for your definitions, you're discussing tenses. I'm discussing voices. The active voice is authority. The middle is voluntary. The passive is even more so, but implies no authoritarian directive at all. But there's a probalem with what you'r saying. You're using definitions alone, without context. Context here is everything. Taking one verse here and using it is a bastardization on Paul's message.
As for your retort on husbands not having to love their wives, I'm using your method. You seem to neglect that Paul also tells us to submit to one another as to Christ. That means both husbands AND wives should submit to one another. In Paul's directive, if you both submit, then there's no leader, no authority. Mutual submission is by its very nature cooperative and voluntary, and is exactly the context of Paul's usage of the word in this verse. Man is not meant to be the authority of his wife, any more than woman is to be the sole lover.
If a man requires his wife to submit to him as though he were the authority, then the submission is not voluntary, not mutual, and not biblical. Likewise, if a woman does not allow her husband to love her, the same applies.
This is something I've thought long and hard over. I've prayed over this intently. I've asked for the guidance of the Holy Spirit, and this is clearly what the Holy Spirit tells me. You're insisting that I use a greek dictionary to back up what I'm saying. There's no way to do that. The only way to have a sense of this is to refer to experts who have detailed knowlege of the culture of the time. I've done that. Even if I brought Paul himself here to explain, I doubt many would listen, because they're so stuck on the letters of the words, they neglect the spirit of the words.
[ June 12, 2002, 08:01 PM: Message edited by: Johnv ]