I'm beginning to understand why our views are so diametrically opposed. Postmodernism pervades our education system nowadays and you demonstrate its powerful influence in your reasoning.
Postmodernism teaches that all humans are on a perfectly level playing field. It dismisses a Creator who created woman from man and subjected her to him, because it teaches that women are co-equal in all aspects, since women and men both are "survivalists of the fittest" through evolution. The biblical worldview teaches that "God is no respector of persons, male nor female, slave nor free, Greek nor Jew," but that God has assigned roles and authority for the purpose of harmony.
Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. (Ephesians 5:22-23)
So Scott starts with that "evolved equal" ingrained belief, convinces himself that the Bible must agree, and forces the biblical view to agree as he has attempted to do here, by inferring meaning that quite honestly and simply isn't found in the practical reading. That is the only logical explanation I can deduce as to why you insist on distorting clear, straightforward teachings by Paul.
Postmodernism teaches there are no absolute moral truths and that we should all respect and accept each other's moral views. So Scott (in another debate) states that although he believes that homosexuality is a sin, he believes we should respect and accept moral views of people that disagree. It's called "the new tolerance." Traditional tolerance says accept all people but not all views/values regarding morality. The postmodern worldview calls traditional tolerance a form of intolerance. I bring this up to validate postmodernism's influence on your mindset, Scott.
So on the one hand, Scott argues a hermeneutic that has been influenced and formulated by his postmodern worldview against John who argues a hermeneutic that has been formulated by seeking to adhere to a biblical worldview. No wonder we are so far apart!
