Speaking for myself, as
@atpollard may not have read all of my posts about it,
I do not get my understanding from Reformed theology, I get it strictly from my own studies of the Bible.
I believed on Christ during the preaching of God's word in 1978 in an Independent Baptist church in my area, during a revival meeting given by Dr. Carl Hatch.
I grew up in that church from 1978 until I quietly left it in 2005 ( because of their increasing use of Bible translations I didn't like, lack of church discipline, especially regarding women and the way they dressed, and young people and what they were involved in...and the world's music and the worlds ways ( "worship bands", "movies", "church growth methods", etc. )) to join another Independent, Fundamental Baptist church that was much more conservative.
I left that one a year later after having a long talk in the pastor's office ( what's a "pastor's office"? Can't find that one in the Bible...lol. ) over Romans 9... which he didn't seem to understand and which I thought was very odd, considering he was, at the time, 30 years my senior in age, and at least 10 years senior to me in the Lord.
I didn't even know about election, "Calvinism" versus "Arminianism" or any of that until 2003, when a friend of mine asked me to read 3 passages on my own time ( Romans 8:29-30, Ephesians 1:4-5, 2 Thessalonians 2:13-14 ) and when I finally did about 3 days later, it made me sit down in shock;
I'd never seen them before, not in 25 years of sitting through sermons in any Baptist church I visited or was a member of, nor in the Christian school I attended for over 2 years when I was in junior high and high school.
The more I dug into the Bible for myself, the more I found verses ( and even whole chapters ) that no one had ever shown me, much less preached on.
Suffice to say, I know of no Independent Baptist church ( or any church for that matter ) in my area that preaches or teaches the
entire counsel of God's word, and there are some 50-60 Baptist churches of varying teachings and practice within 40 miles of me...2 within 3 miles of my house and over 10 within 7 miles of my house.
I have read parts of "The Sovereignty of God" by A.W. Pink because I own it on Kindle for PC, I have a Kindle copy of "The Obedience of a Christian Man" by William Tyndale, and I have a few copies of others that I picked up for reference purposes...
If anything, to see if the men who wrote them were seeing the same things that I saw in the Bible.
I have read, and occasionally do still read, articles online ( to see how they compare to my own private studies ) and I have only visited a Sovereign Grace Baptist church once in my lifetime;
I decided not to join because they wanted to re-baptize me to "identify with their teachings", which I also thought was strange, because I was baptized in 1978 to identify with my Saviour and His words...
Not a denomination's teachings.
I hope that helps to answer some of what you were asking.
If you'd like to know more, please don't hesitate to start a conversation with me;
I'd be happy to answer any questions you might have.