Well, of course we are to be holy - I Peter 1:15-16 says "but as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, since it is written, "You shall be holy, for I am holy." I see as the calling of the elect and sanctification as two different things - one follows the other. I haven't been able to fully follow all of this but I don't think anyone has explained the verses I listed yesterday where Scripture DOES say that GOD chooses us, that we are "called", that there is an "elect". Please understand that I'm not Calvinist fully but I DO see that there is a lot of evidence for it - yet there is a lot of evidence for Arminianism too. I, in my humaness cannot say that it's 'not fair' or 'mean' for God to call some and not others - and I'm not convinced fully that we do not play some kind of a part in this - I'm not sure. As I said in a previous post, there are great arguments on either side and I don't think necessarily that it's only one or the other. I know my senior pastor for years has been on the side of free-will but as he's aging and getting more experience, he told me the other day that he's really beginning to think that the idea of the 'elect' is more and more making sense.
2 things though. Heavenly Pilgrim just said “Examine yourself, and see if ye be of the faith.” and it makes me think of 2 important things I say to myself with regards to things like this - "What is the state of your soul in regards to this matter?" - Where is MY heart in this? I'm saved. I am sure. I know that I am a child of God. Then what does God command us to do? To go make disciples of all nations - so my job is to preach the gospel to everyone. I don't know if it's free-will or the elect but God calls me to do something and I will obey Him. What difference it makes isn't up to me - it's up to God.
The second thing is a funny about this whole thing. A dear friend of our my mom's used to go to our church and her husband would come too although he never was saved. He just kept saying "no" to every call, every discussion - everything. Finally one day a few years ago (now, this is easily 35 years in the making), my pastor went to him and said "You know, Martin. I think you CAN'T be saved! I think after all of these years of hearing the Gospel and refusing it, maybe you're not one of the elect and just can't be saved." LOL - Started quite the discussion ending in this man FINALLY turning his life over to Christ and he really has been a changed man since then. So, was it that God has now called him and he responded or was it really his choice? I have no idea but I DO know the angels sang that day (and I cried). LOL!