Hey, rick_uk, I was reading your post and had to look to see who wrote it - sounded so much like me I thought maybe I had posted it and forgotten about it 
Have a friend in the midwest that has been faithfully preaching great, Bible centered sermons for years and his church is just a small work that barely supports him. His church is surrounded by the feel good type churches that are thriving.
Always figured if Christ is the head of your church you don't need to worry about numbers cuz it is He that buildeth the church not your methods, mechanics and feely good tactics.
Have a friend in the midwest that has been faithfully preaching great, Bible centered sermons for years and his church is just a small work that barely supports him. His church is surrounded by the feel good type churches that are thriving.
Always figured if Christ is the head of your church you don't need to worry about numbers cuz it is He that buildeth the church not your methods, mechanics and feely good tactics.