Doesn't Calvinism say that God elected unconditionally (which in itself is problematic since the most clear biblical condition for salvation is belief) those who would be saved and by extension those who would not, and also that this occurred before any soul was born or even sinned? Thus according to Calvinism the damnation of those who go to hell was sealed before they ever sinned, and this seems to me contradictory to the whole thrust of the Bible, especially "Romans 1"! Now of course God for foreknows everything and is also outside of time, so to God electing someone at the end of time is no different than electing him before the beginning of time. God says every action will be judged, but of course to God, who is outside of time and inside it at the same time, he's already seen and judged each and every man, knowing full well all who would respond in faith to his loving and convicting Spirit and who would not. The fact that God elected believers "before time began" is irrelevant, since to God there is really no other way to describe it, since we all exist and operate in this thing called time, and he is not bound by it. I really don't see any responses here that seriously challenge the accuracy of Wesley's non-sugar coated depiction of Calvinism.
I agree with you Jonathan, God chose those whom he foresaw in his foreknowledge would believe. We have several examples of this shown in scripture.
John 1:47 Jesus saw Nathanael coming to him, and saith of him, Behold an Israelite indeed, in whom is no guile!
48 Nathanael saith unto him, Whence knowest thou me? Jesus answered and said unto him,
Before that Philip called thee, when thou wast under the fig tree, I saw thee.
Jesus "saw" Nathanael "coming to him", and called Nathanael an "Israelite indeed". This is the true Jew described in Romans 2:28-29.
Nathanael was shocked that Jesus KNEW him, Jesus responded that even before he was called, Jesus saw him. This is a perfect example of foreknowledge, Jesus knew before that Nathanael would believe on him when called.
Another example shown is the prodigal son.
Luk 15:20 And he arose, and came to his father.
But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.
The prodigal son came to himself. He confessed he was a sinner unworthy to be called his father's son. He started for home, hoping upon his good father's mercy.
But before he could come home, his good father was already watching, and saw him coming from afar. This is foreknowledge, this is God seeing who will believe on him before it actually takes place.
It is plain as day for those who can see.