Just personal experience and from having been in a half dozen churches over the years in several states.
So you don't know if this is a problem or not then.
I have pastored six churches. Four of them had red carpet in the sanctuary, one had blue and the last one had no carpet at all. The church with blue carpet was one of the most horrific pastoral experiences in my life. Using just my personal experience and the representative population of six churches I could say that churches with blue carpet are the most difficult churches to pastor. It wouldn't be true but, based on my experience, it what was observed.
That said what part of the book of Acts are you referencing as a model for evangelism? What about Chapter 16? The conversion of both Lydia and the jailer led to their respective households coming to Christ. The proclamation of the Gospel was not limited solely to the men. In Lydia's case, Paul went to the riverside and addressed the women. (Acts 16:13)
No part of the family should be neglected when it comes to the Gospel. I could tell you of many adults who came to Christ through a church bus ministry focused on kids. I know of adults serving the Lord now who were saved through the ministry of a church softball team.
It might surprise you to find that when you use words like
many and
most to highlight what is happening among churches that
many and
most are faithfully fulfilling their calling.