Joe said:
Hi Bob. I am curious about a few things...
Is this verse you cited above biblical support for purging an adulterer from your congregation (revoking membership) "if it is known" as you stated? If it is known, does that mean if a church member tells just one person, a friend or maybe a Deacon they recently committed adultery and feel awful, show fruits of being repentant, then are they then purged from the congregatin for a one time adultery? What if she has no knowledge of the incident, do you yell the wife why his membership was revoked?
I understood only God can know who is saved, and that is why he gave us earthly instructions to follow, a guideline in Matt 18 which declares someone an unbeliever if certain things occur.
Sorry Joe, we have 0 tolerance which covers me also on adultery, murder, rape, pedophiler, queer, theif.
We have a beieif that we are doing someone a disservice to keep them in membership in such cases. We feel a person has to get saved, before membership in the church. God will straighten us all out one day. We will take them back, after repentance and treat them as good as we treat anyone.
I agree only God knows who is saved, but we know a man's fruits and if they are of the devil, he needs to repent and get right with God, then we will give him membership.
The wife always is the first to know.
Let me ask you a question, say someone did commit adultery and his wife did not want to fellowship him. Which one would you let go, the husband, who is guilty, or the wife?
I see where Haggard checked himself out of rehab. It makes no difference, rehab can't help his conditon, it takes God. It his only chance.
BBob,