Tom Bryant said:
Maybe another way to go about the business meeting idea is to ask for the authority to appoint a 3-5 person group who would study how to cut down on spending while increasing giving.
I think this is exactly what we're going to do. I'm calling the treasurer today to get the ball rolling.
padredurand said:
We went through this a few years ago. The treasurer was having kittens over the budget and had fussed over how we were going to pay the Pastor (thank you) and the rest of our expenses. We're a church plant, I'm bi-vo and we are a frugal bunch. That said the solution was simple.
1. We are going to trust God. From the widow's mite to our greatest asset it's all His.
2. We made it a matter of prayer among the church leadership.
3. We let the congregation know what was going on. This was no TV preacher pleading for a faith seed. I didn't have any revelation that I was going to die if they didn't meet the budget.
I read from the Good Book
Each one must do just as he has purposed in his heart, not grudgingly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.
2 Corinthians 9:7 NASB
I loved the way you put all that. I'm totally stealing from you.
abcgrad94 said:
In theory, it would be great if everyone would step up and help out more, but in reality, that probably won't happen in the OP's church. Here's why. Small churches usually mean fewer men to pick up the slack. Small churches also have big expectations of their pastors. They like the closeness of having the pastor there for them at every turn. Unless this is a very spiritually mature congregation, they are not going to be happy or understanding when the pastor can't be there to kiss their boo-boos every day. If the men aren't already helping out, they aren't suddenly going to decide to do so.
His wife isn't going to be happy when he can't say no (most pastors hate to say no because they love their flock) to the congregation and continues to give the same amount of time to the church, causing her and the kids to get the short end of the stick.
I do love my flock.

They actually are quite spiritually mature. I don't have to put out many fires. People get along with one another. People serve. It's just that since we're fairly small, we get worn out more often since there are less people to do all the work. Cutting the grass is one of those things we're all just tired of.
It's nice to have a great big yard, but it takes almost a full day to cut with a push mower, and at least a couple hours with a riding mower. We actually did take turns cutting it a few summers ago. The problem wasn't the manpower, but the practically of it. People found it difficult to get their equipment there in order to mow. So eventually, one person took over the task, and after a couple summers, he resigned from it and we hired a lawn care service. This was the first summer we haven't done it ourselves.
abcgrad94 said:
The church has increased giving to missions and other areas, so why must the pastor be the first to get his paycheck whacked? Missionaries are great, but the church should first support the one who is caring for them.
We've increased giving to missions twice since I've come, both times at my request. I think a healthy church is also a generous church, and it sets a good example for all members that we shouldn't hoard all that God blesses us with. That being said, there is room to scale back our missions giving. Currently, we're giving 14.5% to outside entities. I'm going to suggest that we scale this back to 10%.
abcgrad94 said:
The wife has already indicated her feelings of how the members live and how they treat the pastor and his family. For me, that says it all. She already feels taken for granted. That's a huge red flag there that tells me things aren't going to change for the better for the church simply because the pastor takes on another job.
My wife doesn't have any hard feelings toward the church at this point. She mentioned that she'd feel hurt only IF they decrease our pay. As of right now, we're all good.
webdog said:
Sounds like that church needs both leaders and those willing to serve. Most people in the church nowadays are mere sponges.
There are very few sponges at this church. Most members serve in some way. It really is a good church. Not perfect, but I can't complain about the quality of Christians here.
Regarding the tithing issue, I know it's off topic, but I thought I'd throw in my two cents since I started this thread.

My understanding of NT giving is that we're to give joyfully and sacrificially. The exact amount isn't the issue, but the heart is. That being said, I think there is something to giving a tenth of your income. I think it's a minimum. If we can't even give what the Jews were required by the Law to give, what does that say about our hearts?