How does this tie into the main argument I've raised? I am not focusing on man's responses at all - remove him altogether from our tablet of consideration for now. I am looking at God and His nature alone.
Calvinism states -
1. God sovereignly predestines condemnation over the non-elect before any man's good or evil, before the foundation of the world.
Scripture then follows it with -
2. God desires the non-elect to repent and believe as seen throughout the OT and NT.
Looking at just these 2 events that occur within God alone, how can 2) follow 1)? You don't need man's responses factored in here - just a sovereign decree of God and His own desire within Himself. How can they be opposed to one another when the counsel is already made before the desire?
God desires. God counsels/decides. God does. Nothing to prevent Him from whatever He has chosen to do. And once He's chosen to do something, there is no variance in Him, no second-guessing, no opposing desires - this is consistent with God, right? Do you see this violated by the above 2 points?
The word is preached to all the nations, but this does not imply God desires the non elect to believe, if he did, why is there the elect?, and only they get saved?
What your describing is a double minded God somewhat schizophrenic seeing all the things he has said in scriptures.
And if you try and use the old testament prophets, they were speaking mostly to Israel about repentance.
God does have enemies.
God will judge the world in righteousness and it cuts both ways, just like Romans 9 says.
19 You will say to me then, “Why does He still find fault? For who has resisted His will?”
20 But indeed, O man, who are you to reply against God? Will the thing formed say to him who formed it, “Why have you made me like this?”
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Does not the potter have power over the clay, from the same lump to make one vessel for honor and another for dishonor?
22 What if God, wanting to show His wrath and to make His power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath prepared for destruction,
23 and that He might make known the riches of His glory on the vessels of mercy, which He had prepared beforehand for glory,
24 even us whom He called, not of the Jews only, but also of the Gentiles?