I don't think it should matter how controvesal the scripture passage is, preach it anyway! It's all God's word, and 2 Timothy 3 16 says:
All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for
reproof, for correction, for instruction in
righteousness:
All of it is there for a reason. Yeah, it got real quiet when my pastor preached on Titus two, but what older ladies that don't neseceraly hold to that passage don't understand, is that younger girls like me NEED to know what that passage means! I need to know that one day I'm to be a submissive wife. I need to know that I can't preach. I need to know what my place is in the church is. I need to know that I should be a keeper at home. And that goes the same with any passage of scripture. Someone in your church needs what it says. And don't let someone's criticisum stop you from preaching ALL of God's word. If God has dealt with you, and wants you to preach a message, go ahead!
I agree there are quite a few verses that would ruffle more than a few feathers...but if it does, then they needed ruffleing!
My pastor has stepped on my toes with more than one sermon, but I knew I needed it!
I'll never forget a sermon my preacher preached. It was on forgiving others. I can still see it now. "WHAT RIGHT DO YOU HAVE TO HARBOR UNFORGIVNESS TOWARDS ANYONE WHEN GOD FORGIVES YOU EVERY DAY!?" He shouted. I nearly ran to the alter then. {A woman in my church publicly emberrised me about my mom's past and mine in front of my pastor, and a missionary, and quite a few other church members, and I ran crying from the church that night, and I just couldn't seem to forgive her...untill my pastor's words got through my thick scull!} She and I spoke privatly after the service, and got things right, and I felt fee of a heavy burden...finaly! My point being, his sermon, though very convicting, helped us to get right with our Lord. I need that, and I'm quite sure the members of your churches need those type of things preached on too.
Remember:
Preach the word; be instant in season, out
of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all
longsuffering and doctrine.
~Miss Abby