Really?!?
You do realize that most molesters were molested as children, right? These people have done horrible things, but they're still created in the image of God. That wasn't forfeited when they abused a child. Image-bearers should not be so flippantly and dismissively snuffed out.
If we did a better job of rehabilitating those molested as children, there would be many fewer molesters. We should think about that, instead of just saying "hang them all."
jaigner, this is an issue that is very, very close to me and my views on it do not come lightly.
I come from a family where my two brothers oldest brothers and I were all abused in that way. It's a horrid thing to go through.
We all have our choices in life though. He chose to handle it by repeating the offenses. If there was anything positive, it was that as far as I know, all the victims were adults, although he did offer to babysit one of my children and even though I didn't know he turned into an offender, something I couldn't put my finger on said "don't allow it" and I didn't.
A couple years later I found that he'd been arrested for molesting a string of women. In more than one state. That he's previously been arrested. I lived in the area and had heeded the warnings that there was a serial offender targeting mostly college girls and I followed the advice put out by police. My then-husband's restaurant was raided by police for an assault that happened behind it as the police considered the idea that someone in the restaurant may have been the perp and fled so easy because all he would have had to do was walk back into work.
Then to find out it was my own brother?
Yes. I know what he went through because we all went through it.
He ended up indulging in fantasies and stated this as part of what triggered his decision to carry out what was in his head.
He's my brother. I love him.
He was sentenced to 15 years, I think.
The 29th of this month, I stopped short in the store because I swore I saw him. I felt something, felt very disturbed about him because I knew that wasn't possible. I went home, did some research, and found out he was in the process of being released, max sentence up they let him out that day.
Yep, there's a connection there. He's my brother. He also served his max sentence because he broke probation when they released him a few years ago the first time.
And what am I thinking now? My daughters are doing college prep work. They are beautiful. And what if he comes around? Young college girls are his victim of choice.
What about others?
Sex offenders, and I don't care what "statistics" say, repeat as long as they have a victim. I know from experience, I know from working in the prison ministry, I know because there's not a single person I've known or have research that hasn't offended again, whether it was a month later or years and years later.
Especially those that do it in response to their own abuse. They are mentally ill in a way that does not permit them the ability to live in public without being a danger and laws meant to keep others safe from them don't permit them to live a normal life and be able to find a decent place to live AWAY FROM OTHERS who will draw them back and usually if they do get jobs, the people hiring them also hire other offenders and so...they're surrounding with people who trigger them.
He knows what it is like to be abused. Instead of taking that and using it to help others who have been abused, he chose to make others feel the same way. His sentence was 15 years. How long are the sentences of his past and future victims? A lifetime. That didn't have to happen.
So yes. I believe in the death penalty for those types of offenders and it's not an easy conclusion. It's a painful one. But I'd rather see my brother in the arms of Jesus and healed from what he went through and not have to live through what he will feel when he loses control and does it again. So there won't be other victims, so those that he already did this too won't have to live in fear of him.
There's another situation I can't speak of in much detail publicly, but another tough one, trying to turn around a situation where a child was both the victim of abuse over years in his early childhood and now has his own victim he attempted to repeat the abuse on. Time to break the cycle and I pray, so much, that it will be turned around and that everyone involved will be able to help him turn that around and he can heal and as we work with his victim too, that she can come to terms with it and not react to abuse the same way.
It's also a lot of my reason for believing the same of alcoholics. They have an addiction that they chose. Alcohol and drugs played a part in a lot of the abuse talked about above. It destroys the lives of those around them apart from endangering the lives of innocent people on the road. Drunk drivers aren't just driving drunk, they're raising families drunk and traumatizing people all around them. It's a lifestyle that affects more than just driving. By the time they get caught in that, they've probably already hurt and traumatized a number of people in a number of ways.
And many I have known feel pretty guilty about it. They know they're ruining others that love them, they know they're endangering others. When someone is that dangerous to themselves and others, same as I stated above, should they really be with the general population?
Should the innocent and those that are victims of these people have to pay out of their own pockets for the care and keep of them?
Of course there should be common sense. Surrounding circumstances taken into account. I can't see a young person who got drunk for the first time getting the death penalty, even if that person killed someone else in the car, despite the fact that he did take another life and it was his/her fault.
But these people get jailed and sit there being useless to the outside world and costing money. They're typically not out there doing anything to compensate their victims, that comes from victim's compensation funds and where does THAT money come from? They're not out there being put to work anymore digging or clearing fields and doing something constructive, they're sitting in secured jails being fed and given medical care and learning how to get away with it next time from repeat offenders they're in jail with.
As long as that's the way these crimes are handled, then yes, I will continue to believe the death penalty is the most logical and compassionate option.