Umm.. excuse me.. I never claimed anything otherwise. The only disctinction between my view and yours is that we see God's supernatural work being toward ALL men and not some bring to Himself through the calling and conviction all men of faith whom He foreknew.
The rest of that 'fluff' (as you call it) refutes your understanding of "responsibility' since the word itself necessitates the ability of capcity to do it. However it is word 'capcity' that is specific here regarding both resposibility AND ability. Capcity does not mean a person is enable now but that when that enabling comes they have the ability 'THEN' to believe.
Thus you 'can not' divorce abililty from resposibility in a judicial pr legal sense and remain "Just". Your re-defined word makes God insincere in His offer to all men to believe and be saved (which even most Reformers held regarding God's offer to the un-elect with the exception of the hypers).
Do you believe like the majority of Reformers (with the exception of those with Hyper tendencies) that God offers salvation to the un-elect as well as the elect?
For example like J.I. Packer:
Or the Westminister Standards..
Is it not unjust to sincerely give the gospel to the un-elect that if they would believe they might be saved and turn around and judge them eternally for not being able to believe because God didn't want them to?
Just how sincere was God in offering them salvation via the gospel knowing they will not beleive because He will not allow it?
It is (IMO) double talk and a great deal of dancing to say -
God is sincere in His gospel offer to the non-elect but in the same breath state that God will not allow them grace to believe His gospel offer. (it makes God a liar)
Just as it is to say a man is resposible to believe the gospel offer which He sincerely gives to the non-elect to be saved by faith and them damn them eternally because God did not desire them to believe. (it makes God unjust and unrighteous)
Call it fluff all you like but it is still a fact and it stands against what you are claiming regarding what 'responsibility' actaully means/entails.
I would still be interested to know what your answer is to this question I possed:
HOWEVER, personally I would like to get back to the threads OP - about Regeneration