Apparently you need to look up that word. And some things are not really debate material. Calling Calvinism Gnostic is itself an ad hominem
Ad Hominem in debate is definitely with one begins to attack his opponent (personally, character, etc...) rather than the issues up for debate. Your turning this debate into personal issues is a form of Ad Hominem, it is fallacy because these personal issues draws away the subject up for debate. By me even replying back to you about your personal issues it begins to cause a smokesceen which also which also takes away from the ethics in philosophical logical debate WHICH is to draw the truth out in an argument that has a specific focus (NOT PERSONAL)! THAT CAN"T BE DONE WHEN ONE HAS TO DEAL WITH YOUR PERSONAL ISSUES!!! Got it?
You happy now, or do want to continue with your fallacies WHICH have NOTHING to do with the subject other than YOUR personal problems that the subject OFFENDS YOU?!
Take a class in basic logic and critical thinking skills.