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Hence, Christ did not need to come into the world to condemn anyone because they were born "children of wrath" and "children of disobedience" even as others (Eph. 2:2-3).
But the Elect were never born condemned for being by nature children of wrath as others, for God
never charged them with their sins of nature as others
Also, the Elect were never children of disobedience,
they were Children of wrath as others, which others would be the children of disobedience.
So your quote is false !
Eph 2:2-3
2 Wherein in time past ye walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air
, the spirit that now worketh in the children of disobedience:
The children of disobedience are the non elect reprobate !
3 Among whom also we all had our conversation in times past in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind;
and were by nature the children of wrath, even as others.
Now being a child of wrath here is not the same thing as being under the wrath of God as in Jn 3:36
36 He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life: and he that believeth not the Son shall not see life;
but the wrath of God abideth on him.
Because these which the Wrath of God abideth on, the sentence on them is that they shall not see Life, they will remain permanently under God's Wrath, No Salvation for them to obtain !
So being a child of wrath by nature in Eph 2:3 for the elect means their sinful walk when they are unregenerate, their life style only is meant, which life style makes them in themselves quite worthy of death !