Yet you post 1000 times more against our views than you do those of hard determinisms? I only recall you correcting Luke once or twice and even then it wasn't near as "adamant" as your dealings with us.
I have addressed my contentions with Van in several posts, but I'm not claiming to be as "adamant" against our differences as I am Calvinism. And I'm certainly not labeling him heretical. Most of our difference, IMO, are somewhat semantic or inconsequential to the larger points of the discussion.
As to why we get along well? We both follow Jesus and are striving to have civil and meaningful discussions about biblical doctrine. One common trait is that we both begin threads and discussions with a civil and on topic intent. We return kindness with kindness and remain on subject with those who deal with us honestly, civilly and objectively. When attacked personally we call people on it and sometimes it gets heated, but rarely, if ever have we been the instigators of such blatantly uncivil discourse. Maybe that is the difference you are seeing?
You = Van -- Me = Luke.
What you can't know (and I will not make public) are the number of private messages I sent back and forth with Luke. I will say publicly that I will not carry Calvinism to the same place he carries it. I believe that most will not. But, Luke is on the right track and he argues FOR God's ultimate sovereignty in ALL THINGS, as do I. It is, between us, a matter of degree or as you state above, semantics. I find the shading of variance in theological language to be the most exacting science, and the nuances of words do have an impact on what is being said or left un-said.
Van, on the other hand, has vigorously attacked Arminianism, your ensconced position. You also have argued far askance of classical Arminianism, and when I have made attempts to qualify the source of your Arminian holdings, you have been resistant. Is it Wesleyan, pure Arminius, Remonstrance, or what?
You, sir, have an agenda that is published for all the world to see, and that agenda is the defeat of Calvinism. You do not argue to gain knowledge, to further understand the Scriptures or the workings of our Sovereign Lord. You argue for one reason -- to defeat horrific Calvinism. Others don't have your same motive, but you project your motive to all who engage you, as does Van, your new partner in this effort. Good job... I'm sure God is most pleased. :BangHead: