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  1. Yeshua1

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    Strange view, as God Himself have to us acceptable divoce guidelines!
     
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    But he does not sanction it under the New Covenant. If it happens, you must remain single.
     
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    Actually, the Lord said that one can divorce if certain criteria is met!
     
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    But it is not an option under the New Covenant.
     
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    why is it not permittable in the NC? forbidden even if they divorce before salvation?
     
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    • [1Corinthians 7:12-16 NASB] 12 But to the rest I say, not the Lord, that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, she must not send her husband away. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through her believing husband; for otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy. 15 Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such [cases,] but God has called us to peace. 16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
    Why do you seek to place someone under a bondage that God has specifically stated they are not under?
    It says that a BELIEVER is not to SEEK a divorce with an unbeliever, but it also says that an unbeliever cannot PUNISH a believer by leaving them.

    Above and beyond all of this, "divorce" is not the "unpardonable sin". Forgiven is forgiven ... "go and sin no more".
     
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    Divorce was an Old Covenant provision. Jesus replaced the Old Covenant with the New Covenant. The New Covenant makes no provision for divorce. Divorce = unforgiveness. But unbelievers divorce even though it means nothing in God's sight. They are still married.
     
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    Sin unrepented of is not forgiven. There is no divorce provided for in the New Covenant. But all marriage is for life. If a believer is married to an unbeliever and they divorce, they are still married. But the believer is not bound (subject) to the unbeliever.
     
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    Where in the Law was a husband ever under bondage to his wife?

    • 1Corinthians 7:15 Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such [cases,] but God has called us to peace.

    That seems an exegetical "fail".
    What if the "saint" now burns with passion? Reconciliation is not possible and YOU deny them the command that it is better to marry than to burn. Where is the "peace" in that?

    Where is it written that any pagan marriage ceremony is "what God has joined together"?
    Is sleeping with a temple prostitute before salvation "marriage" to the prostitute? Which husband must claim her and which husbands are required to repent of adultery?
     
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    Freed to remarry, but has to do that if she chooses to with a fellow Christian...
     
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    What paul stated has the same authority has Jesus Himself, correct?
     
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    if one souse commits adulktary and refuses to confess/repent/forsake that sin, God views them as now being divorced!
     
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    So the blood of jesus, His death on the Cross, has no power over a divorce/remariage situation?That would eb the real unpardonable sin?
     
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    Paul stated that it was, was he wrong?
     
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    I have known some who were against divorce so much that those who had divorced and remarried years before being saved, they still denied them entrance into their churches. Yet, when they had their wives bolt on them, it was amazing how quick they saw their 'errors' and got re-hitched.

    I bet many who are anti-remarriage post divorce would quickly change their tune if their wife bolted. :Whistling
     
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    Looks like a Pharisee setting in a Sanhedrin...
     
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    Looks are deceiving.
     
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    If you can find divorce = unforgiveness on the part of one seeking divorce, as a Christian virtue in the NT, you might have a point. But it is purely a pagan law, like abortion, that God does not validate.
     
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    No, Divorce = separation. People are still married.
     
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    No, because God's elect will not remain in any unpardonable sin. But remarriage = adultery to be repented of.
     
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