While I believe the tithe is not for today no do I find it appropriate to beat people over the head or make them feel guilty about the subject, I do believe its vital to give freely and cheerfully to the Lord's work. One church in the NT gave in their extreme poverty, and gave beyond their means and they are an example of a cheerful giving church. The book Radical encouraged me to give more and to give cheerfully. When someone is tight on finances, and or have CC bills to pay I do not consider it wise to give 10% when the person is not spending his unemployment check on luxuries, but it is wise to give something.