Ok, so you are saying that Paul makes the argument that the hardened Jews 'haven't stumbled beyond recovery' but 'may be provoked to envy and saved' 'if they don't persist in unbelief'....they, being 'natural branches,' may 'be grafted back' into the tree...and the reason for this argument is to show that God is able to save them, but won't so as to show those who are saved that it has nothing to do with them? Really? That is your answer?
Let's take another speaker, John the Baptist, who employs the same rhetorical device as Paul to the same purpose:
Think not to say within yourselves, We have Abraham to our father: for I say unto you, that God is able of these stones to raise up children unto Abraham. And now also the axe is laid unto the root of the trees: therefore every tree which bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire.
To apply your reasoning, you're forced to presume that some rocks are elect. After all, why "brag" about God's ability to raise some up as sons of Abraham if He has no intention of doing so, unless he just wanted to confuse his audience?
My answer is that John's point isn't that God is going to call any rocks to repentance. His point is that the Pharisee's have nothing brag about, and that they are where they are, and the stones are where they are because of God's will, not by an inherent quality. In other words, the stones have as much hope in themselves of salvation as the Pharisees, and the Pharisees boast?
My answer is, your presuppositions are non-sequiturs. They're illogical. Not only are they unsupported by the writers of Scripture, the writers of Scripture counter them. Now, let's just stick to the point of the passage, and quit reading into it things that aren't there.
So what's the point of the passage? The only difference between the elect and non-elect is God's will. That's it. Not some deficiency, not some quality, not some choice on their part. God and God alone. Esau's mention with Pharoah as a fellow vessel unto dishonor pulls the rug out from under your judicial hardening theories.
So, those cut off of the tree just APPEARED to be apart of the tree but really never were? So, Paul discourse regarding them being 'natural branches' is a lie because if they were never "of the tree" then in reality they could never have been 'natural,' right?
Again, presuppositon submitted as necessity.
Two Israel's are defined by Paul. One is spiritual Israel, the other is natural Israel. According to the flesh, unbelieving Jews are children of Abraham through Sarah, but according to the spirit, they are children of Abraham through Hagar. They are not free, but slaves. So what saith the Scripture? Cast out the bondwoman and her son, for the son of the bondwoman shall not be heir with the son of the freewoman.
The tree represents spiritual Israel. Some of the natural branches, those who are children of Abraham by the flesh, are part of that tree. They believe and are blessed with Abraham, the father of the faithful. Some Gentiles are part that tree. Just as the cut off branches were never part of the tree, the wild branches grafted in were never absent. In Paul's picture, we never see the branches that were cut off abiding in the tree, neither do we see the wild branches absent. We are presented with a tree made up of some natural branches and some wild branches. Don't assume that Paul meant for anyone to take it further than that. You find it confusing because your are encumbered by an irrational need to go beyond the prima facia symbolism. Don't assume that the First Century audience felt that same need. If you must take the symbolism further, I've never known a husbandman to prune a tree for the sake of saving the branches he cut off. The branches he cut off are destined for the fire.
Yes, and its a command of the Spirit that you are to hate your parents, but understanding the greater context and intent of the author is necessary, is it not?
If you must quibble, whether one has affectionate feeling or not is not the issue. When it comes to Christ, one must reject and abandon his natural ties. It doesn't matter how you slice it, Esau was personally rejected. Not just given a different job than Jacob, he was rejected, and for no reason other than the will God. Sounds like hate to me.