My grandparents were immigrants to the USA from Eastern Europe. They were Orthodox there and stayed Orthodox after moving here, although surrounded by Roman Catholics and Protestants. They never could get used to how their neighbors viewed God and man. The Eastern mindset is so different from the Western. Judaism and early Christianity were Eastern religions, and when Christianity moved westward, it took on new and unfamiliar views in contrast to the East. That's one thing I have learned in my studies. I don't think these contrasting and very different views of East and West can ever be reconciled, since they view God and man very differently. For me, having been brought up in the West but in an Eastern church, I have to say that I still hold to Eastern views of God and man, since I believe these are the views taught in scripture and the early church.
Maybe an answer for me is some conservative offshoot of Anglicanism, or Methodism, as I have found that these churches do encompass some Eastern features. At least, maybe I wouldn't be in a slim majority on my atonement views. I'm not sure about this. I'll have to look into it further. I might have to compromise in some of my other beliefs, such as baptism and church government, but these probably wouldn't be as crucial to me as the doctrine of atonement. Forgive me -- mostly thinking out loud here. Thanks to everybody for bearing with me on this.