You believe God only calls a select few.
Nope, I believe that both sorts of calls--the call of the gospel and the call of the Spirit--are to a great multitude, which no man could number, of all nations, and kindreds, and people, and tongues.
But millions have heard the gospel offer--the call, and died refusing that call.
Absolutely.
Now then, they refused because they were not "called"--not really.
No, they refused because they were intransigently opposed to God.
Those "called" in Calvinism, are effectually called, and must come.
Not quite right, either. Those who receive the inner call of the Spirit in conjunction with the genuine call of the gospel message WILL come. They are not forced to come, but they will certainly (and willingly) come.
So how can you say all that hear the gospel call are genuinely invited to salvation when you know they are not
They are absolutely, positively genuinely invited to salvation!
All those who don't come were never invited.
Oh, many WERE invited, and refused because of their intransigent opposition to God.
ye Calvinists say one thing, and then contradcit it in the next breath
If there were, then you ought to be able to show it. Can you? Contradictions can be shown by putting the propositions in A=nonA form. So show me. You can scream or holler "contradiction" all you want, but if you can't show it, your screaming and hollering is meaningless.
I simply refer you to Calvinists, mostly from a bygone era that were far more honest and logical than you.
What I'm explaining here is classical or historical Calvinism. If you don't understand that, then you either haven't read as much as you boast, or you misunderstood what you read.
Calvin believed the grace of God was quantitatively limited, like some kind of commodity, rather than being an infinite attribute of God.
Show me the quote where Calvin says grace is not an attribute, but is a commodity.
I believe that grace is an infinite attribute. However, it is also expressed freely by God according to his own choice and purpose. He is gracious to whom he will be gracious (Exodus 33:19).
And please give me the references to this quote so I can put it in context for you:
who, by extending the beneficience of God promiscuosly to all, does all in his power to diminish it.