Are we not supposed to interprate the bible for are selves as we see fit isn't it an easy document to understand like people from Martin Luther to mark Driscoll have said.
:type: Steps on soap box:
Frankly, me thinks, that you’re going about this wrong. If a husband is setting a great example of what a husband and father should be to his wife he wouldn’t be having to try to impose such interpretations on her that she is in sin for not wanting (more) children with him. The blessing of a wife’s desire to be the mother of her husband’s children will only come through his correct humble behavior and her freely coming to that decision. In this case I suspect
a lot of humility is needed beginning in prayer and conceived in a proper sense of loving grace and that of willingly and sacrificially being a servant to his wife, willing giving his all for her rather than attempting to declare his wisdom and righteousness and levying on her that he is to be her lord.
Yes, the Bible is the "Instruction Book of Life" and is full of wisdom in how to live it and to be blessed in it which is easy to understand but it is also just as easy to abuse by taking what you want to hear and neglecting one’s own responsibilities to adjust his attitudes to conform to giving his love freely, in grace and humility, and thereby freely receiving love, trust and respect in return. The blessings that come by God are rooted in giving love not taking it, being a servant to others, giving of yourself freely not because they deserve it but in grace, and waiting patiently and in humility while understanding that the more you know about righteousness the more YOU will know that YOU are a sinner of the worst sort (1Ti 1:15) and are most undeserving but by God’s grace and that in
the power of giving love is what brings the acceptance, glory and blessings in life.
For example: I often explain when presenting the Gospel to a skeptic that if God were to simply appear before you and Declare “I am the Lord your God and you are to love and obey Me or you will go to Hell!” that that would not achieve a response of love but of fear and that is not true love and would bring Him no glory. God wants you to come to Him freely in love of the Truth and faith that He IS Love. I tell them God will give them everything they need to come to faith (Mat 7:7-8) and it all begins in seeing and understanding His love which He wisely reveals in His Word in that how He died for us in love (John 1) and this was not in any way because we deserved it, this was His plan and this was freely given through and because of His Great Loving Grace. That is an example of how Love works, God is Love, and He tells us to follow Him and when we do it it blesses Him and brings Him glory. It’s all about bringing Love into the world and serving through giving love in grace to “freely” receive love and servitude in return for the good, this kind of love can’t be forced.
Steps off soap box…