I have posted I am not a Calvinist, so why did not indicate Reformed Theology just can't understand the power of the gospel. Are you implying [rather than clearly stating] the gospel's divine power is to supernaturally enable the lost to believe? If so, your claim is not found in scripture, but once again has been read into the text.
You cited 1 Corinthians 1:18, but did not indicate what you think it means.
Let me tell you what I think it means. Your translation has "them that perish" but the Greek grammar is in the Present, Middle, Participle form - which says the person is acting upon himself or herself, currently causing the demise. Thus if you are rejecting the gospel, your action is causing your death. No supernatural enablement is suggested. Next, your translation has "us which are saved" but the Greek grammar is in "Present, Passive, Participle" form - which says someone [God in this case] is saving the person. Again, God's independent action is not said to be dependent on the person being enabled to believe. On the other hand, our belief in the power of God, God's omnipotent power, under-girds our complete faith in and devotion to the gospel of Christ. We believe God raised Jesus from the dead.
Simply put, Van, it's the power of the preaching of Gospel that brings the lost to Christ, not some predetermined decree of God by His choice.
The Baptists place the preaching of the Gospel at the top of the list when many others place it on a shelf.
I don't know where you stand in the midst of all this, I just making a general assessment of what I'm seeing here!