Most of your post is just the same old rubbish that I've answered over and over again. I'll just deal with a couple of bits that I can't remember dealing with before. I don't send my children to hell. That's God's job. But Psalms 5:4-6 is in the Bible whether you like it or not. Deal with it.
No. It disproves
YOUR Calvinist view.
1. Do you really believe that I think only Calvinists go to heaven? Shame on you! I have never said anything like that, and indeed have called for peace between Calvinists and Arminians on this very board. But you are not an Arminian, are you?
2. When have the majority counted for anything with God? If the majority were always right we would all be Roman Catholics.
The rest I have dealt with many times before. If there is really anything you would like me to answer, of course I will do so, but endless repetition becomes boring for writer and reader alike.
However, I am encouraged by your remark that you only became aware of the C vs A debate around 3 years ago. There is hope for you yet! I was reading a biography today of Abraham Booth who was a leading English Particular Baptist at the close of the 18th Century, and author of the famous work,
The Reign of Grace. I was interested to learn that in his youth he was an Arminian and strongly opposed to the Doctrines of Grace. Eventually, he was brought to see the truth and wrote the following:
The doctrine of sovereign, distinguishing grace, as commonly and justly stated by Calvinists, it must be acknowledged, is too generally [opposed]. This the writer of these pages knows by experience to his grief and shame. Through the ignorance of his mind, the pride of his heart, and the prejudice of his education, he, in his younger years, often opposed it with much warmth, though with no small weakness; but after an impartial enquiry, and many prayers, he found reason to alter his judgement; he found it to be the doctrine of the Bible, and a dictate of the unerring Spirit. Thus patronized, he received the once obnoxious sentiment, under a full conviction of its being a divine truth.' [Abraham Booth,
Memoir. Works 1:xxi]
I shall be praying for the same enlightening for you.