Someone mentioned an "abusive marriage" and advise.
First, a true Christian is not abusive.
1Co 7:3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
Eph 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
1Co 7:10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.
13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.
16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?
Paul said if an unbeliever wanted out of the marriage to let them go, really, what else can you do, the believer wasn't "bound" to remain in an unloving relationship, but to make an honest effort.
In a case such as this, I don't think God would condemn a "victim of circumstances" who remarried as much as the one responsible for those circumstances, God does judge the "intent" of the heart.
Divorce doesn't totally destroy your spiritual relationship with God, all continue to sin, but for a believer, if the divorce was your fault, you could be in for some serious chastisement.
