The importance of "so"
In this discussion about John 3.16, and in particular the meaning of "world" there, it must also be important to determine what the Greek word translated in many English versions as "so" actually means. Like so many words in English, "so" has many meanings.
I might say to my wife, "I do love you so," meaning that I love her such a lot.
Another time, I might say to her, "Let's have breakfast at 6 a.m. so we can make an early start," where "so" means "in order that".
And there are many other uses of "so".
Particularly in older English, "so" can mean "thus", "in this way".
I am no Greek scholar, but I understand that the word translated "so" in John 3.16 means "in this way". The Strong's entry, 3779, for the word says:
in this way (referring to what precedes or follows):— after that, after (in) this manner, as, even (so), for all that, like(-wise), no more, on this fashion(-wise), so (in like manner), thus, what.
It's the same word that is translated "in this manner" in Matthew 6.9, where Jesus says:
"In this manner <3779>, therefore, pray: Our Father in heaven, Hallowed be Your name."
So John 3.16 is telling us the manner in which God loved the world, not the extent. There are other passages that deal with that matter. Romans 9.13-24 is one:
13 As it is written, "Jacob I have loved, but Esau I have hated."
14 ¶ What shall we say then? Is there unrighteousness with God? Certainly not!
15 For He says to Moses, "I will have mercy on whomever I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whomever I will have compassion."
16 So then it is not of him who wills, nor of him who runs, but of God who shows mercy.
17 For the Scripture says to Pharaoh, "For this very purpose I have raised you up, that I may show My power in you, and that My name may be declared in all the earth."
18 Therefore He has mercy on whom He wills, and whom He wills He hardens.
19 You will say to me then, "Why does He still find fault? For who has resisted His will?"
20 But indeed, O man, who are you to reply against God? Will the thing formed say to him who formed it, "Why have you made me like this?"
21 Does not the potter have power over the clay, from the same lump to make one vessel for honor and another for dishonor?
22 What if God, wanting to show His wrath and to make His power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath prepared for destruction,
23 and that He might make known the riches of His glory on the vessels of mercy, which He had prepared beforehand for glory,
24 even us whom He called, not of the Jews only, but also of the Gentiles?
I was surprised to discover that there are several English traslations of the bible that actually translate the first words of John 3.16 along the lines of "God loved the world so much". Examples are the Amplified Bible, the Living Bible, Moffat New Translation, New English Bible, Today's English Version, the Jerusalem Bible, and The Message.
"God loved the world in this way" means something quite different to "God love the world so much."
Every blessing,