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Discussion in '2003 Archive' started by lvwisc, Jun 3, 2003.

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  1. lvwisc

    lvwisc New Member

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    Hi Diane,
    Thanks for posting that poem. I've printed it out so I can hang it for all to see.
    You are right, the deadline is not what he needs to get this stuff out of here. I have come up with something much more suitable, one that doesn't look like he's under condemnation. I just can't say what it is here, but I know you as a believer will understand that. It's a no fail option. [​IMG]
    Thank you for your prayers. I covet them! I can feel a praise report coming on for tomorrow! Im also excited because Sunday night I led my sister to the Lord. It's the first time I have ever taken such a step of faith like that and the words flying out of my mouth were not mine. It was so amazing!
    I know that the Lord will richly bless us and keep us for all of our days. He's watching and waiting for us to come closer to Him. We just have to remove a few hurdles first.
    God bless,
    Kristine
     
    #21 lvwisc, Jun 4, 2003
  2. crazycat

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    Kristie
    I am so sorry for your situation. But let me say that if your husband does not want them thrown out then you must abide by his wishes. It is your job to be submissive. Please do your best to keep them out of the reach of children and pray earnestly for your husband.

    This maybe an unpopular response, but it is a Biblical one. It is a wife's duty to her husband to be submissive.

    God Bless and praying 4 u,
    Cathy
     
    #22 crazycat, Jun 4, 2003
  3. Bro. James Reed

    Bro. James Reed New Member

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    Not in sin. If he wanted a menage a trois, should she still be submissive?

    I think you're taking this a tad far. Our FIRST duty is to be holy before the Lord.

    God Bless. Brother James
     
    #23 Bro. James Reed, Jun 4, 2003
  4. RTB

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    I agree.

    In Christ

    Ronnie
     
    #24 RTB, Jun 4, 2003
  5. LauraB

    LauraB New Member

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    I also am in the same position. Not with magazines though. More like internet.

    I am pretty freaked over it, and it has made a huge dent in our marriage. He say's I should be "over it" by now, but when you have been decieved and made to feel like you can never measure up to what he wants, "getting over" it may take some time. And it may not happen at all.

    If I found the magazines I would toss them. Yes they are his property, but as the keeper of our home, and having children with whom I wouldn't want that filth around, I would take the autoritive hand and throw them away.

    About that friend at work that keeps giving him that stuff. Same here. He had a friend that sent him that filth in e-mails. And since hubby wouldn't tell him to stop, I did. I told him it was not appreciated and to stop sending it. He did!

    I also have a program that I get a report of all sites visited. Got it off of xxxchurch.com

    It is a nasty addiction, and I will keep you in my prayers !
     
    #25 LauraB, Jun 5, 2003
  6. obstinate

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    Not in sin. If he wanted a menage a trois, should she still be submissive? > bro james

    tell me wher in the Bible it says not in sin?

    Abraham ordered his wife Sarah twice to say she was his sister. she submitted to abraham and was willing to be married to a pharaoh and a king both times. Thus he ordered her to commit adultry and Sarah submitted to her husband and God saved her from adultry.
    Genesis 12:11-20, 20:1-18


    As for this gal her husband is not asking her to sleep with someone else. He is keeping porn in the house. It is her job to submit to her husband. The Lord would not command wives to submit if He was going to put her in a dual situation.

    The best thing is to submit, you are not sinning against God because your husband has porn in the house. You have not said your husband is making you sin. If you do however, go against him and pitch it you will be sinning by disobeying your husband.
    I would like to privately email if i could about this, You may see in further detail how God will bless you, if you do your main priority that is being submissive.
    God Bless,
    Cathy
     
    #26 obstinate, Jun 5, 2003
  7. SaggyWoman

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    I would have to double ditto what Dr. Bob said.

    Internet is also a concern. If not the other, then the internet.

    This would make me wonder a lot of things....
     
    #27 SaggyWoman, Jun 7, 2003
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