Here are two secrets:
Secret #1: I deleted my own thread at the request of another member. I was not the member who deleted the one's Icon is speaking of. That is why we have to be very careful when making assumptions about other people.
Secret #2: Those threads never went AWOL. That is just what we let people believe. They were executed for treason.![]()
Jon, in the end, this is just a discussion board. It is a poor substitute for in-person relationships. Do not get me wrong. It has its place. I am a moderator on another online venue, so I know what goes with the job. Sometimes it is a thankless task. The back-channel dialogue I have with my fellow moderators is probably similar to what goes on here. We do strive for transparency and accountability with each other. We are not perfect and sometimes we err. The one thing we do is communicate back to the member if a post or thread is deleted. We tell them the action that was taken and why. The why part is important because it helps the member understand the reason an administrative action was taken. Perhaps that will be a wake-up call for someone to change their behavior if they were out of line. That said, this board does have its rules and if it ever gets to the point that someone cannot abide by them then they should leave. No one has a gun to our head keeping us here. Unless you are in Chicago or Detriot.