I feel like you are the kind of person that is going to blame his wife, the coworker and her husband when this all blows up in your face because it's just never you that is the issue. You are playing with fire in the workplace and with your marriage. I hope you don't get burned in either case. I feel like this woman is politely giving you every signal in the world to back off. I pray you do just that.
And I pray you learn to be quiet and READ MY POSTS!!!!!!
I clearly said that I AM NOT TEXTING HER ANYMORE