ONLY applies IF you hold to cultural mandated just for that time and setting!
Again, ONE verse supporting women can lead as pastor/elders in a church setting!
I'm sure this is not new to you ,therefore will not be enough for you, but...Priscilla and Aquilla ministered in similar fashion as Paul and Barnabas.
Rom.16:3-5 Greet Priscilla and Aquila, my helpers in Christ Jesus, 4 who have laid down their own necks for my life; to whom not only I give thanks, but also the churches of the nations. 5 Likewise [greet] the church that is in their house.
They were leaders in their house church.She taught men
Acts 18:24 And a certain Jew named Apollos, an Alexandrian by birth, an eloquent man mighty in the Scriptures, came to Ephesus. 25 This man was instructed in the way of the Lord. And [being] fervent in the spirit, he spoke and taught the things of the Lord diligently, knowing only the baptism of John. 26 And he began to speak boldly in the synagogue. And Aquila and Priscilla heard him, and they took him and expounded to him the way of God more perfectly. Eph.4:11 And truly He gave some [to be] apostles, and some [to be] prophets, and some [to be] evangelists, and some [to be] pastors and teachers. Priscilla was recognized Teacher in the "churches of the nations.
Since the word man is often either neutral or translated in ways that can include women I would ask if you can give one scripture that names a man who is a pastor/elder in a church setting.