The reason behind post # 85 is that too often the typical thinker just writes off a whole group and therefore bring a short of condemnation upon what they may actually find acceptable in their own view.
Such a discussion must (as it pertains to a certain preacher or even assembly in which there is disagreement) be very specific as to exactly the extent and boundaries of both agreement and disagreement so that clear distinction is made.
For example:
I am clearly not KJV only, and although I may celebrate quietly if visiting such a church, would if ask make such a distinction as unoffensively as possible to a member.
In the realms of rapture, I am a rapture at the will of the Father hopefull, yet I am also a physical return of Christ with all believers for the millennium thinker.
When it comes to the promise of God to the nation of Israel, I most certainly do not hold to a replacement theology (supersessionist) as some are.
Therefore:
Could I join such an assembly? No.
Could I find fellowship in some members of the assembly? Possibly, dependent more upon them then me.
Could I bring accusation against the assembly and the leadership? Possibly, but it would be very specific and upon matters of doctrinal conviction and not upon preferences.
Ultimately one must be very careful and specific when calling an assembly and that assembly’s leadership into question.