Case-in-point!! One Christmas a fellow I knew gave his secretary a couple of hundred $ so she & husband could make sure their kids (two, IIRC) could have a good Christmas.
He later learned that the couple had spent the money on a restaurant that they could never have afforded, with the leftover going to the kids.
He told me that that he would never do that again.
Moral:
1 You earn the money, you hoard it or throw it out the car window as you drive through a poor neighborhood! It's yours to do with as YOU see fit.
2 You give money to someone with the understanding that it is for a SPECIFIC purpose, then they spend as required, or give it back!
3 Whether they get anymore $, depends on how they handled the last!
Should be the same with all aspects of welfare!!