Except that most Calvinist., Arminians, and non-cals suggest that God works within the will of man. This is an argument that you should not have singled out for the “Calvinists.”
Well, that is what they say. First they tell you man is so utterly depraved that he cannot even form the will to love or cooperate with God in any way. He hates God with every fiber of his being, he CANNOT be willing. But then God supernaturally regenerates him and gives him a willing heart. How can this not be said to be against his will? He hated God, he wanted nothing to do with God, but God made him love him. Again, not much different than the fella who slips a pill into a ladies drink. R. C. Sproul called it the "holy rape of the soul"
http://articulifidei.blogspot.com/2010/07/rc-sproul-and-holy-rape-of-soul.html
This is not a true representation of man. Cornelius was not saved, neither did he have the Holy Spirit, but he feared God, prayed always, and gave much alms to the people. God recognized his good works and sent an angel to tell him to send for Peter where he heard the gospel and believed, receiving the Holy Spirit and being regenerated.
So, folks can say anything they want, doesn't necessarily make it so.
We don’t know a person intimately without knowing what they do. We do judge according to one’s action. We really never know anyone completely. You are exactly right. The Calvinists that I know, however, equate God as infinitely greater than man. They suppose that He knows us even before we act, knows us even more than we know ourselves. (We are not talking about "us" but about God). But I do understand why you wouldn’t accept that argument.
I would agree with this completely. No one would have thought Samson was saved, he disobeyed his parents and took a non-Jewish girl as a wife, killed 30 men to settle a gambling debt, deserted his wife, and visited a prostitute on a regular basis. But he had faith in God and is included in the "Hall of Faith" in Hebrews chapter 11.
But again, all men who pleased God had faith, without faith it is impossible to please God.
Heb 11:6 But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.
I never lost sight of the picture, but thanks for clarifying your position.
My point was not that “they” were right and you were wrong. It was that you cannot simply substitute your definitions for theirs and then proceed to disprove their theology. In other words, your first step should have been challenging a “Calvinist debater” on the BB regarding the definition of foreknowledge or simply leaving it out of the argument. Since you stated that you didn't care about their definition of "foreknowledge" it is impossible for you legitimately debate the issue (you'd only end up grandstanding and not actually addressing your opponent).
I don't think you can disprove a Calvinist. Calvinists have a way of interpreting scripture where you cannot refute them. You will show them John 3:16 where it says "For God so loved the world" and they will tell you the "world" only means the elect. How can you refute someone who constantly moves the goalposts?
I realize that most Calvinists will never listen to my arguments. But one or two will, and that is the best I can hope for.