I agree we love God because he first loved us. How could we not love God for giving his Son Jesus to die for our sins?
But I disagree that God does not love the unsaved.
I understand. I made the statement, it is up to me to prove it. We will go over this.
Jesus said to pray for our enemies and do good to them, for our Father makes the rain to fall on the just and the unjust. The reason men do not love God is because they are selfish and self-centered. They love their sin and do not want to give it up. They do not want God to rule over them.
Here we agree too.
So, where we disagree is who God loves. A study of Gods love helps.
1 John is the passage that tells us we must love one another. But it also tells us why we do love one another.
7Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.
You must be BORN of God, BEFORE you can love God. You cannot love God 1st, and then you are born again. The love comes from the new birth. The next verse tells us this...
8He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.
One element I find amazing that the atonement is always linked to Gods love. This passage you will find this truth again. Right in the middle of talking about God's love John brings up the atonement.
9In this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him. 10Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.
Christ was SENT here to die for sinners. The atonement was a love act by Christ. Verse 10 says...This is what love is. Love is the atonement. Love is not we loving God, but God loving us. Its the reason why he came. He came for the intent of saving sinners.
John uses this love of God to tell us we should love other believers..
11Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another. 12No man hath seen God at any time. If we love one another, God dwelleth in us, and his love is perfected in us.
13Hereby know we that we dwell in him, and he in us, because he hath given us of his Spirit.
Notice that the only way we can have this perfect love is >>BECAUSE he has given us the Spirit, Now read the next verses very close...
14And we have seen and do testify that the Father sent the Son to be the Saviour of the world.
15Whosoever shall confess that Jesus is the Son of God, God dwelleth in him, and he in God.
The ONLY WAY we can confess Jesus, is that we must 1st have him in us. A non-believe does not confess Christ and then is born again. His birth comes 1st, then he has the love of God in him to confess Jesus.
John seals this in the next verse....
16And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him.
Notice what we are believing. We believe that Gods love is IN US. We do not believe and then Gods love comes in us. Its in us because of the new birth.
Now being that God is love, we should be able to see who God is, when we study "love". If we study love we must go to 1 Cor 13. 1 Cor 13 will tell us a lot about Jesus love...
1 Cor 13..
4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy;
We know that Jesus love is long suffering. We know that he is kind.
love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own
In John 5 we read..
“I do not accept praise from men, but I know you. I know that you do not have the love of God in your hearts. I have come in my Father’s name, and you do not accept me; but if someone else comes in his own name, you will accept him. How can you believe if you accept praise from one another, yet make no effort to obtain the praise that comes from the only God?
5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity,
Verse 5 and part of 6 LIMITS gods love. God hates evil. God hates iniquity.
Eph 2 gives the contrast of those in the dark kingdom and those in the kingdom of light,
Those in the Dark kingdom God has his WRATH upon them.
1 And you were dead in the trespasses and sins 2 in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience— 3among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind.
Now look and understand fully verse 8 of 1 Cor 13.....
Christ came to SAVE sinners. He did this through the LOVE act of the atonement. This was the intent. This is what love is..
True love never fails. It worked. He came to save sinners, and every person he gave his love for will be saved. Count on it.
Romans 8....
Romans 8 is often used for "eternal security". And I will not deny that this is the main point by Paul in the passage. But there are other things we can lean here..
31What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? 32 He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things?
Notice that Paul gives the power of his claim in the atonement. Who can be against US..the believer...When God sent his Son to DIE for them? If God did this, would he not do all things?
33Who shall bring any charge against God’s elect? It is God who justifies.
34Who is to condemn? Christ Jesus is the one who died—more than that, who was raised— who is at the right hand of God, who indeed is interceding for us.
The main pont here is GOD. How can you stand and charge the elect, when GOD is the one that justifies? The atonement WORKED.
Now read this verse and think...
35Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword?
God's love did not start after we believed. God SENT his Son as a LOVE act...The atonement. Love was the intent of the atonement.
WHO IS GOING TO KEEP US SEPARATED FROM GOD????????
Yes...who will separate us..AFTER WE ARE SAVED...but also..WHO WILL KEEP US SEPARATED FROM GODS LOVE???
BECAUSE>>>>> this is the REASON why he came.
Paul answers...
36As it is written,
"For your sake we are being killed all the day long;
we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered."
37No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, 39nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.