Brother Bob said:
I have told him over and over:
Luk 13:3I tell you, Nay: but, except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish.
He says what scripture says, if you are guilty in one point ye are guilty of all. So that does not leave any room to not repent of each and every sin.
Yes, I have also told him that God has the record, and knows all sins we committed.
No, you do not have to remember each and every one, just ask God to forgive you of your sins.
Hope that is not to bad in error.
BBob,
Herein is the problem Bob. You say:
"No, you do not have to remember each and every one, just ask God to forgive you of your sins."
In relation to repentance or even salvation this is a false doctrine.
It is a false view of repentance in view of salvation.
No man can repent of all their sins; it is an impossibility, as I think you will now concede.
So now you want to lump them all into one large cesspool and ask God to forgive them all. Why? and why should God do that for you?
God demands repentance; he doesn't want you to ask for forgiveness (as an unbeliever).
Repentance is a change of attitude in respect to God's authority.
Once I was rebellious to God's authority; now I accept him as my authority.
My attitude has been changed. It has been changed 100%. It is a complete change, a turn around, going the opposite direction.
That is why the Bible says:
Acts 20:21 Testifying both to the Jews, and also to the Greeks,
repentance toward God, and faith toward our Lord Jesus Christ.
--Note that repentance is toward God. It is a change of direction.
Here in an anecdotal story that helps one to understand:
An old Methodist preacher was preaching a sermon on repentance. But it was in high and lofty language. He was well educated and spoke a nice flowery message that the people couldn't understand. At the end of the message a wise old deacon came up and asked the preacher if he could say a few short words. He was granted permission.
He said: "Folks this is what repentance is:"
And he started walking down the aisle toward the back all the while shouting: "I'm going to Hell! I'm going to Hell! I'm going to Hell! I'm going to Hell...
When he got to the back of the church, he turned around and proceeded to the front of the church all the while yelling:
"I'm going to heaven! I'm going to heaven! I'm going to heaven! I'm going to heaven...
When he reached the front, he said: "Folks that's what repentance is--a change of direction.