Brother, ppl make many choices everyday. Coffee or milk, scrambled eggs or over easy(queasy more like it), what outfit to wear that day, &c. But that is not free will.You exercised your free will to talk about the Bible. You exercised your free will to back away when they tried to convert you.
He acted upon that which he desired - that is free will.
Fallen man still has the image of God present in them. They are still able to hear His voice and respond to His offer of salvation. Some respond by accepting - some respond by rejecting.
Our wills are bound in sin and Satan at birth. David even talks about being conceived in sin. He talks about how the wicked are at birth. The Christ said this “No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and wealth.”[Matthew 6:24] If someone has a master, they are a slave. Even post-conversion, the saved are slaves to the Christ. That’s why Paul used the words Christos Dolous, bond-servant, slave.
Then Paul writes of this For if we have become united with Him in the likeness of His death, certainly we shall also be in the likeness of His resurrection, knowing this, that our old self was crucified with Him, in order that our body of sin might be done away with, so that we would no longer be slaves to sin; for he who has died is freed from sin.[Romans 6:5-7] And also wrote What then? Shall we sin because we are not under law but under grace? May it never be! Do you not know that when you present yourselves to someone as slaves for obedience, you are slaves of the one whom you obey, either of sin resulting in death, or of obedience resulting in righteousness? But thanks be to God that though you were slaves of sin, you became obedient from the heart to that form of teaching to which you were committed, and having been freed from sin, you became slaves of righteousness.[Romans 6:15-18]
Now ppl can improve their natural state by making good choices. The drunkard or drug addict can sober up and live good lives in order to gain custody of their children they lost due to their addictions. The thief can stop stealing. The liar can stop lying. The gambler can quit gambling, &c. But only God can change their will in regards to how they view Him. Romans 8:5-9 states For those who are according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who are according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit. For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so, and those who are in the flesh cannot please God.
However, you are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you. But if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Him.
The unregenerate are hostile towards God. At enmity, have an ill-will towards Him. Want nothing to do with Him. Remember, only those who receive Him are born of Him.[John 1:12-13] Only those who love Him have been born of Him.[John 4:7]
God must do the first work, ergo new birth, before the unregenerate person can do theirs.