Hrhema: If God predestines man's salvation by forcing salvation on some and denying it for others as some claim then Jesus died in vain.
Larry: No one has said this.
Unfortunately, there is a failure to explain why, according to the Reformed tradition, salvation is not that which is forced.
In the Reformed tradition, the sinner is not forced to be saved because: (1) God
specifically chose him (reasons unknown); (2) In choosing him, God gave him a heart to desire and seek after salvation; and (3) In giving such a heart, God gives him the faith in order that he would be empowered to willingly and agreeably accept salvation.
The unsaved are not forced to be damned against their will because: (1) They,
as specific individuals, have been passed over for salvation (again, reasons unknown); (2) In passing them over, God has left them to a nature with the absolute inability to desire, obey, and believe in Christ; (3) In leaving them with this inability, the sinner remains willingly rebellious against God and is inevitably condemned to hell.
Accordingly, if my assessment is correct, the Calvinist can never be accused of teaching that God forces salvation on one or rejects another who wants to be saved since in the former God gives them the heart to want salvation because he choose them and in the latter God refrains from giving them a heart to want salvation because He did not choose them.
My conclusion: Accordingly,
the ultimate ground and deciding factor in an individual’s salvation or damnation is not the Cross but God’s free and eternal choice. The Cross is the means whereby one is saved and may be used to differentiate between the saved and the lost, however, it does not ultimately determine who is saved.
If there is anywhere, except in the last paragraph since that is my personal assessment, a misrepresentation of the Reformed tradition, please advise.