I'm not sure what your issue is. A corporate worship setting isn't a place for people to be doing this. It seems you're talking apples and oranges.
You make a good point there. When I came to the Lord, it was exactly like that. The church I attended was all about getting saved, but after that, nothing. I ended up getting involved with a church that was good at supporting newly saved people in their post-salvation walk.
If you can't identify with my issue than you have never been where I am. Of course there is a time and place for Corporate Worship. That being said, when and where is the time and place for Christians to be fed? To share? To find help and insights?
As for getting involved in a church that's good in their support, may I ask where that might be? I haven't found one!
I'm certainly not trying to be adversarial here but when it comes to talking apples and oranges, you must realize both are fruit. It seems to me that too many churches are missing the mark.
Too many churches are involved in nothing more than, as you say, Corporate Worship Services and those who need help are not finding it in that setting. Hence, they leave the church with an attitude. Hopefully you understand what I'm saying here.
Churches are sometimes their own worst enemy and wonder why their membership isn't growing or why the members they do have, are leaving.
Let me add one tid-bit here. The church "we" belong to is a country church. The pastor is a great preacher. Fabulous preacher. Tells it like it is! However, every member is somehow related to the family that laid the corner stone to the original "old" church back in 1952. With the exception of about 14 people all the members are over 65 and retired, maintain control and not a bit interested in out reach?
It's sad.