Not_hard_to_find said:
Please review postings for examples of patience by many. Then inspect the fruit tree.
Again, quick answer, quick solution. Then, if he doesn't just show the "fruit" we think he should, when we think he should, the patience quickly vaporizes.
El_Guero said:
Eric,
xx has started 215 threads and interacted with his discussions over 900 times . . .
SOOOOO, for every important question (for which he cannot find a mentor) he interacts on average 3 more times with electronic mentors. That is up over the last 6 months from around 2 interactions per question (during about the last 300 posts).
So we have to be he mentors for now. Some peopke try to answer his questions, then you all tell him to avoid people like Benny Hinn who are overboard with the wild claims and stuff. Fine. But to get that frustrated and then begin questioning his salvation just because he doesnt react the way you think he should, is a bit much; and now all that stuff about "the dark night of the soul" (? If his confusion is so annoying, do you want to confuse him more? Why say something like that? I don't even get that post!)
I have offered to find him a mentor . . . at first xx came back with cute answers, then the answers migrated to the woman pastor that xx is under does not have time and she might be liberal . . . so xx goes from a liberal woman pastor to benny hinn for spiritual needs to be met - INSTEAD OF TO THE WORD OF GOD.
I remember that discourse, and I think the main problem was the distance. You know someone in Germany or wherever he is, or do you mean someone online?
Having offered to help a confused (?) young person find a good discipler, I, and no doubt others, do not believe that xx has ever sincerely looked for discipleship.
And as I believe that I have posted - whatever has to be sacrificed - discipleship is worth the price.
Thread after thread . . .
XX is looking for those that will tickle the ears. I serve a Risen Lord, His Words are not to tickle the ears and make one 'feel good', His Words bring pain and a reaction.
Either the reaction is repentance and submission to His command to be disciples, or it is a rejection of His Word . . . .
Wayne
And this is a highly unfair judgement! Even if he is unsaved, do you know how many people have been turned away from Christ (and often become the most hardnosed atheists) because of Christians being cold, especially when it came to questions? (This includes my father, who remains unsaved). Do we go out into the mission field to prospective converts angry that they are not already mature Christians? Do we count all of their questions like that and just hope they would stop and go away? Yes, he is asking a lot of questions, and many of them have no ready answer. Some do, but no one can seem to agree what the Word of God really says, as everyone has their system or arguments for their preconceived ideas (and the sabbath issue is a perfect example that I was thinking of). It took me a long time to realize that people can answer only but so many questions; and learn to just read for myself and make up my own mind. But it is true that that is hard to do when we realize it could be wrong. At least some like this want the real truth, and not just any quick interpretation that sounds good (contrary to that "tickling of the ears" remark). It seems questions have always been a problem for many Christians, and we have a reputation for dodging them. This ultimately hurts our whole testimony, even though some may buy our quick ready answers and silencing/pacifying techniques.
Yes, there are people playing games through questions, but xdisciple does look like an honest seeker. Yes, "Nowhere does Christ command us to become seekers of knowledge", but then a person has to start somewhere, and how do you expect him to believe in something with no knowledge of it? So whether he is saved or not, you are trying to push "discipleship" and now "repentance" on him, but if he does not understand, then coming down in judgment is not going to do anything but push him further away if he does happen to be unsaved--like he is really doing something to you because he has a lot of questions there are no easy answers for. As I said, this speaks alot about our faith, just as much or more than him. If he's just a faker playing games, then leave it to God; threats won;t faze him anyway. Meanwhile, we have had several supposed "confused Protestant questioners" recently who quickly went from questioning to trying to teach
us "the truth" of the Catholic/Orthodox position, and I noticed nobody jumped on them like that, yet those are the ones people should have been suspecting.
So again, answer him if you can; admit you don't know the answer if necessary, tell him to avoid charlatans, and give them the scriptural reasons why that person is false, as some are doing. If you;re still that tired of him, just ignore him. But all the judgment and annoyance is not necessary, and can only cause more problems. You cannot shake everyone up through tough talk. Some people, yes, but everyone is different.