X, you are assuming a lot about people that you don't even know. I for one was not raised in any church. I had no Christian influence in my home. So my belief does not come from parents or preachers beating it into my head. I had to go to the Bible. You don't seem to be willing to do that. You have been given very good advice and have rejected all of it. If you are saved then you are still a spiritual babe and you need to study the Word and pray, get in church and get out in the world and do good things for others. You are not going to grow otherwise. As for all the charasmatic stuff, it's just for show. It has absolutely nothing to do with you growing as a Christian. And not all churches are dead and boring just because people aren't falling out in the isles. My church is very spirit filled. You can't go there and not be changed. And it's a Baptist church! You need to concern yourself with what pleases God and not what pleases you.
Get in the Word and learn!
Get in the Word and learn!