John Toppass said:
I do not find any scripture that would prevent someone from holding a position in the church because they had obtained an abortion that is legal by man's law.
BUT (you knew there had to be a but) I could not nor would I accept or serve under someone who condoned abortion. I would have a problem with even having Christian fellowship with another person proclaiming to be Christian but condoned abortion. To me, that person would be knowingly living in unrepentant sin.
If this was a past sin, I think there would still be a matter of trust that would have to be recovered through their actions of repentance and fruits of works in the Spirit. It took Paul 3 years to gain the trust of other believers, yet he persevered and gained that trust. Remember Paul went from a well respected position before conversion to that of a believer when they were being persecuted. Trust is not the same as forgiveness. Trust is something that is earned. (especially trust that has been lost) While forgiveness is administered by Grace which is immediate.
I asked my pastor about this debate tonight and he said that both sides of this debate have valid points.
He said that the biblical way to deal with a persons past sins in some cases would to be to proceed with caution, and let the trust build up over time. He said what some of you have been saying, that trust and forgiveness are two seperate things, or at least they are supposed to be, and that he would be very hesitant to put a sex offender in charge of children, but that doesnt mean that there arent other ministries that a sex offender could serve in, or that over time the offender couldnt be restored to the full trust of the church.
But, (and here comes my but) he said that the biblical application of this is very hard to accomplish within a congregation. He said it is very hard for folks to seperate trust and unforgiveness, and for folks to allow time for trust to be restored without constantly harping on the original sin that caused the trust to be lost. He said that if he cheated on his wife and she forgave him, that it might take many years for her to trust him again even though she forgave him....but....if she constantly harped on him about it, then her untrust would actually manifest itself as unforgiveness. He said we have a hard time a humans being objective when it comes to earning trust and lots of times base all of our judements and opinions of a person on the one past sin. If all we can see in that person is their past sin, then it isnt just a trust problem we have, it is unforgiveness.
I am glad we had this conversation these past few days, and I have really learned from it. I appreciate all of the different opinions and input from everyone, and I pray that this will help me to make better judgements when dealing with others, and also help me to be more compassionate when compassion is needed.
AJ