No. Not in the slightest. Do you suggest that God is governed or constrained by the "time" He created? I think some who profess Calvinism err here as do pretty much all who oppose it.I have no idea what you mean by that.
I think "first" as in a timeline is a critical but common mistake. It constrains God to our sense of time. What scripture does say is that man is dead in his trespasses and sins... he is already condemned. He is the enemy of God.
Dead is an interesting word that in every other context you or anyone else would use it... conveys separation AND inability.
Not trying to be rude here but this is mental gymnastics.
Romans 8 tells us that God "foreknew" the elect. That word does not mean he knew ahead of time what one would say or do but rather than He had an intimate relationship with us ALREADY. Trying to subject God to any part of creation can do nothing but make the difficult to understand even more so.
Yes you do. I don't know your personal position but if one's regeneration is dependent on the contribution of a "good" decision by man then that is absolutely an attempt to make God dependent on the goodness of the one saved to accomplish redemption.I know of no one who said God needs our help. It is not at issue here.
Really? Maybe you can cite the specific place that it says they are capable.Romans 1 said all men are aware of who God is and has the capability to come to Him and they do not so they are without excuse.
Now to be completely clear, I think in the abstract they are "capable". But in the concrete reality, they have a dead, fleshly, sinful nature that unless acted upon by the Holy Spirit will NEVER voluntarily decide to accept God.
So you protest my explanation that God initiates salvation by quickening the dead spirits of those who are saved... But then claim that it is not initiated by a decision by the person? Or perhaps you are arguing that the decision to believe and follow Christ is not in every sense a "good" one?I did not say that. Again not at issue here.
It would seem that the initiation of belief is either by an effectual decision by God or by a "good" decision by man. Can you provide another option?