saturneptune
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I agree that each church is autonomous, and what might fit for one might fit for the other. It is worth repeating that the elders must be more spiritually mature than the average member. People are people everywhere regardless of denomination, and lots, if not most times, people who are higher up on the socio/economic ladder tend to be elected elders, instead of a basis of being spiritually mature.Here's my story and I'm sticking w/it:
From abt Aug 1972 - Jan 1996, I was a member of a church in Clarksville TN. Absolutely the worst waste of time were the Business Meeting(s) where Bro So-and-so, after a motion & second moved to support Missionary So-and-so for $10/mo (Of course that was back in 1972, and to the best of my knowledge that $10/mo was never adjusted to represent any annual COLA. Not sure how many pastors we have today who were pastoring back in 1972 who never asked for a salary increase since then....But I digress.:smilewinkgrin, etc., etc., ad nauseum.
Our Wed night "prayer" service consisted of "any prayer requests" & then the pastor proceeded on w/His latest rant on whatever...But again I digress.
Long story short, for the most part I dreaded the business meeting(s).
Then when I moved to UCLA (Upper Corner of Lower Antioch [TN -- SE part of Nashville] :smilewinkgrinin late 1995, I came to a church that was in the process of transitioning to a elder-led type-of church govt. (Prior to that, she held an ANNUAL business mtg in the fall!)
Is my church "perfect in all her ways?" Of course not....They let me join didn't they? :tongue3:....All that to say this....If Sis Sapphira or Bro Ahab still have any questions/comments, the weekly Elders' mtg(s) are open for "civilians," and if either or both can't attend, then our records are open to them at any time.
Moreover, we still have deacons, and they help with the Lord's Supper as well as visit the sick, shutins, etc. When you join w/us, you're "assigned" to a deacon of your owning choosing.
Finally, my church is a "cell-based" [We prefer to call them "Life Groups."] church. While our elders will visit any who ask, we've found that, apart from our Sunday morning "Corporate" services, it's better to "do life" that way.
NOW, am I against any other form of church life? Of course not. What works for any other church may not work in the way "we do things" (We are autonomous, aren't we?).
As I said above, "That's my story & I'm sticking w/it."
OK....."RELEASE THE HOUNDS"! :laugh:
Autonomy makes a better setting for elder rule, as in churches or denominations with a hierarchy, not only is the congregation giving up some of its authority to the elders, it is giving it up to the hierarchy. In a church that is under the authority of a Presbyery for example, the higher authority has a say so in who is called as pastor, ownership of the building, Sunday School material, and policy in general. No way would I serve in a church that was not autonomous.
In relation to business meetings and authority, even in an autonomous church, there is no way I would waste my time serving in a church, even an autonomous church, where there are deacons, cliques or other groups that have pockets of power and say "my way or the highway."