Skandelon, do you realize that you just implicated yourself in very "human" terms? What of the leading of God from the Scriptures? What of the revelation of God in the Scriptures that goes just so far and no further (unlike human logical arguments where the point is often (almost always) pressed beyond where God takes it!)? What of a God who will not share His glory or throne with anyone else -- First Commandment -- and who alone is the author and finisher of salvation?
None of these issues can be derived from human logical inferences, but they are ALL revealed in the text by God.
To the man who can be "convinced" is always another point just around the corner that is even more "convincing." The FATAL FLAW in the Arminian system.
problem is that we impress upon the bible texts our own reasoning of what "should be" the case, as that would make morre sense to us IF God actually did things the way that we would "IF" we were Him!
man centered theology, arminianism actually makes a great deal of sense, as we would be enabled to see that God loved all equally, that it would be fair and just to give all the opportunity to get saved, that all are still able to freely repond by faith etc...
problem in all of that is once we get to a God centered theology, have to see the Bible as teaching that His ways aree NOT our ways, and that God has determined to do what is the best way for Him to receive the glory, and for us to have a "shot" at actually getting saved by Him!