My experience with Calvinists make me qualified to make this statement.
In our church we never discuss Calvinist or Calvinism, it just doesn't come up.
But every time i do meet a Calvinist, it only takes about 2 or 3 minutes for him to bring it up. It's one of the first things they say.
That is why I believe that Joey's church will turn out to be non-cal. Because if it was Calvinistic, the chances are they would have told him so at the very start.
John
I was basing it off you saying you had only been to one. Of course you could have met people you never knew were Calvinists. I'm one and unless you bring it up to me, I don't discuss it. (that is speaking of in person and not the discussions here)