How not to offend, but still make known your concerns?

[T Alan]

I would follow the advice given by Ann. If that fails to come to a resolution then bring in someone else to talk to him with you again. If that fails to work bring it up at a business meeting. Please be kind and let the pastor know that you will bring it up at the meeting before hand. If none of that works and the music is left to loud it may serve you and your family to attend elsewhere.

However, the latter should be a last resort and only after all possible avenues have been met. Just know that sometimes even the best intentions and the kindest hearts are met with offense. Do your best and leave the rest to God.

You said a mouth full then Rev, you said a mouth full then.

 

[annsni]

http://www.dennyburk.com/is-your-worship-music-too-loud-2/

 

[annsni]

I just asked my audiologist-to-be daughter and she said the levels should be under 90 dB to be safe.

 

[Aaron]

You won't, won't offend saying anything about their manner of worship. So if your concern is non-offense, just leave. If your concern is a proper and rational manner to go about expressing your grievance, then you've been given some good advice about that.

But you will offend.

 

[gigabyte71]

I just asked my audiologist-to-be daughter and she said the levels should be under 90 dB to be safe.

Thank you..

 

[Salty]

I would still ask why such a sound system is needed in such a small room.

 

[annsni]

I would still ask why such a sound system is needed in such a small room.

Maybe a small speaker would be useful but we are in a large warehouse and won't use regular drums in there - they are just too loud. You are right when you say that you don't need a sound system like this in a small space.