I agree with AsceticX. The only way to receive the Holy Spirit is to be born (again) of the Spirit and become spiritually alive.
John 3:3-8 Jesus replied, “Truly, truly, I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again.” “How can a man be born when he is old?” Nicodemus asked. “Can he enter his mother’s womb a second time to be born?”
5Jesus answered, “Truly, truly, I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God UNLESS he is born of water and the Spirit.
6FLESH IS BORN OF FLESH BUT SPIRIT IS BORN OF SPIRIT.
7Do not be amazed that I said, ‘You must be born again.’
8The wind blows where it wishes. You hear its sound, but you do not know where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit.”
Titus 3:4-8 But when the kindness of God our Savior & His love for mankind appeared,
5He saved us, not by the righteous deeds we had done, but according to His mercy, through THE WASHING OF NEW BIRTH & RENEWAL BY THE HOLY SPIRIT.
6This is the Spirit He poured out on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our Savior,
7so that, having been justified by His grace, we would become heirs with the hope of eternal life.
8This saying is trustworthy.
I Cor 2:11-14 For who among men knows the thoughts of man except his own spirit within him? So too, no one knows the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God.
12We have not received the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, that we may understand what God has freely given us.
13And this is what we speak, not in words taught us by human wisdom, but in words taught by the Spirit, expressing spiritual truths in spiritual words.
14The natural man does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God. For they are foolishness to him & he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned.
I Cor 12:3 Therefore I inform you that no one who is speaking by the Spirit of God says, “Jesus be cursed,” and no one can say, “Jesus is Lord,” except by the Holy Spirit.
1 John 4:2-3 By this you will know the Spirit of God: Every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God & every spirit that does not confess Jesus is not from God. This is the spirit of the antichrist, which you have heard is coming & which is already in the world at this time.
Only when a person is spiritually born again of the Spirit, can they be filled with the Spirit.
Acts 9:17 So Ananias went to the house, and when he arrived, he placed his hands on Saul. “Brother Saul,” he said, “the Lord Jesus, who appeared to you on the road as you were coming here, has sent me so that you may see again and be filled with the Holy Spirit.”
Acts 2:4 And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other tongues as the Spirit enabled them.
Acts 4:31 After they had prayed, their meeting place was shaken & they were all filled with the Holy Spirit & spoke the word of God boldly.
Ephesians 5:18 Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to reckless indiscretion. Instead, be filled with the Spirit.