Dr Bob, the truth is that before God predestines us, He foreknows us. "Foreknows" does not mean "elect" -- it does not mean "forelove" (a cute Calvinist adaptation but not even suggested by the Greek).Dr. Bob said:"Elected by God" means a PRIOR action/cause (prior to our action) by God that results in an "effect" - my salvation
Otherwise it would be Elected by BOB and then God the cosmic vending machine said "OK you did it Bob. Good for you; I now elect you"
So here is where you are correct: God foreknew who would believe. Then He predestined those to His purpose. This all occurred before creation. All good.
Then in the course of time, what God knew is exactly what happened. We couldn't not believe if He foreknew we would. You got that right, too. But there's another issue -- it wasn't His will that any should perish. So, yes, it is up to us.
skypair