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There is only one way to be saved that is to be born again Jesus explains this in John 3 3Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
4Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born?
5Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
6That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
7Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.
There is only one way to approach Jesus that is to pray look at this Psalms 37 18The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit. You must pray until with this broken Heart a broken heart because you are a sinner by birth
Romans 5 12Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
Paul is speaking of the first man Adam and because he sinned in the garden we are all sinners.
You must pray with faith that he is the only one who can help because there is no works that you can do to earn it
Ephesian 2 8For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: 9Not of works, lest any man should boast
repeating prayers reading scripture and joining the Church and Shaking a mans hand wont do you must pray until Jesus is satisfied and He will let you know He spoke the world into existance and can speak to your Heart
John 10 26But ye believe not, because ye are not of my sheep, as I said unto you.
27My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me:
28And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.
I dont know about the rest but for me i was affaid of dying I knew I was going to Hell so alone without anyone I prayed and begged God to save my soul I dont know how long I prayed But I know this while I WAS PRAYING ALL THE FEAR HURT SORROWS AND BURDENS WERE GONE and a Joy and peace filled my soul something I had never felt before came in and I know that I am saved. Remeber I said I was ALONE . When I was born from my mother I cant Remember but when I was 6 years old I had another birth I will never forget
Psalm 116
1I love the LORD, because he hath heard my voice and my supplications.
2Because he hath inclined his ear unto me, therefore will I call upon him as long as I live.
3The sorrows of death compassed me, and the pains of hell gat hold upon me: I found trouble and sorrow.
4Then called I upon the name of the LORD; O LORD, I beseech thee, deliver my soul.
5Gracious is the LORD, and righteous; yea, our God is merciful.
6The LORD preserveth the simple: I was brought low, and he helped me.
7Return unto thy rest, O my soul; for the LORD hath dealt bountifully with thee.
8For thou hast delivered my soul from death, mine eyes from tears, and my feet from falling.
9I will walk before the LORD in the land of the living.